You have spent your whole life waiting for someone to love you the way you deserve. It's time to be that person.
This is not a workshop. This is not a seminar. This is not another self help weekend where you take notes and go home unchanged. This is a ceremony. A real one. With vows. With witnesses. With a reception on the beach. And for the first time in your life, it is entirely, beautifully, irreversibly for you. “Something inside you has been waiting for this moment.” “Something inside you has been waiting to feel like your own priority.” “I realized I would rather feel like I've done my part to make the right person fall in love with me, than keep waiting for it.” “The apology I've been waiting for I finally gave to myself.” This is your ceremony. You just didn't know it yet. You've done everything in a relationship. It's time to do it for the one you go home to every night, yourself
Testimonials
Don't just take our word for it-hear from people whose lives have been transformed by this retreat.
"I came not knowing what to expect. I left knowing exactly who I am, what I want, and — for the first time in my life — that I am completely enough. Not someday. Right now."
"Reading my vows out loud, in front of the mirror, with the ocean behind me, is the most honest thing I've ever done for myself. I've promised so many people so many things. That was the first time I promised myself something and meant it."
"I didn't expect to cry the first night, but standing at that fire, saying goodbye to the woman I'd been for so long, something in me finally let go. I came into that weekend exhausted from holding everything together. I left lighter than I've felt in years."
"I flew home a different woman than the one who landed on Friday. Three months later I still catch myself keeping the promises I made that weekend, to rest without guilt, to stop apologizing for taking up space. That ring on my hand reminds me every day."
Friday. The Release.
You arrive and you are welcomed, not fixed. Not analyzed. Just seen. That evening we gather for the Goodbye to Our Old Selves dinner. Together, with nervous system grounding and ocean breathwork, you write down everything you are no longer willing to carry: the grief, the anger, the old contracts that told you love had to hurt. Then, in a sunset fire release on the beach, you let the old story become ash. You are allowed to cry here. You are allowed to grieve what was supposed to be yours and wasn't. That is where every love story starts, with the truth. “I release the version of myself who kept waiting to be enough.”
Saturday. The Vows. The Wedding.
In the morning, you write the most important document of your life. Your Soul Contract is not journaling. It is a formal, witnessed commitment, your actual vows to yourself. Promises of loyalty when life gets hard. Forgiveness for every time you abandoned yourself. Permission to take up space, to rest without guilt, to say no without explanation. In the afternoon, we get ready together, the dresses, the hair, the bridal energy of women preparing each other for the biggest ceremony of their lives. Then, at sunset, you stand before the mirror on Belleair Beach, the ocean your witness, your sisters beside you, and you read your vows aloud. Your voice will shake. That's the point. And then we celebrate. A full reception at the beachside home, steps from the water. A live DJ who keeps you dancing until dark. Champagne. Ceremony cake. Photography. The company of souls who just watched each other change. “I do. Finally. Completely. With everything I have, I choose me.”
Sunday. The Honeymoon Morning.
You wake up married to the one person who was always going to keep the promise. We walk to the water for a morning beach ritual and ring blessing, then share a farewell breakfast together before you head home by 11am, framed Soul Contract in hand, ring on your finger, whole in a way you weren't on Friday. “I promise to be the person who shows up for myself first.”
What every part of you goes home with...
💫 Your Soul Contract, printed, signed, and framed 💫 A ceremony ring of your choosing 💫 Your marriage certificate 💫 A curated affirmation card deck 💫 Professional ceremony photography 💫 Community connection with women who understand this exact kind of becoming
Your $2,500 covers all of this.
💫All Meals 💫Ceremony Ring 💫Framed Soul Contract 💫Marriage Certificate 💫Affirmation Card Deck 💫Ceremony Photography 💫DJ & Reception 💫All Coaching & Ceremonies 💫3 Group Ceremonies
What to wear to marry yourself
Whatever tells the truth. This is not a wedding with rules. Some brides walk the aisle in a full wedding gown. Some wear black, because they're also burying someone. Some wear a bikini and a veil, because Florida. Your ceremony outfit is the first vow you make: I dress for me now. Wear what makes you feel like the love of your life. ⬇️Pack this⬇️ 🌟 Your ceremony outfit, whatever that means to you 🌟 A swimsuit, for the pool party reception and the honeymoon morning 🌟 A white or light outfit for Friday's release dinner on the beach 🌟 Something soft and warm for ocean evenings 🌟 Barefoot friendly everything, the aisle is sand 🌟 Sunscreen, your prescriptions, and your favorite lipstick 🌟 Room in your suitcase, you're flying home with a framed contract, a certificate, a ring, and a gallery of photos of the day you chose yourself
You're Ready for This - Are You Ready to Say Yes?
Spots are limited to keep this retreat intimate and sacred. This is your invitation to finally put yourself first, to reconnect with your worth, and to step into a life where you feel confident, grounded, and authentically you. The only question left is: are you ready to invest in the one person who deserves it most—yourself? Pay in Full $2,500 today. Standard Plan $500 today, then 2 monthly payments of $1,000. Extended Plan $500 today, then 3 monthly payments of $667. By reserving your seat, you agree that it is non refundable, that the full balance is owed regardless of attendance, and that your card will be charged automatically on the dates above.
They said yes. To themselves. Will you?
$2,500 · $500 deposit to reserve
FAQ
Do I come alone?
Yes, and that's the magic. You arrive solo, you leave with a circle of women who watched you become her
What if I'm already married?
Perfect. This isn't about your relationship status. It's about the relationship you have with yourself.
What are the dates?
October 23 to 25, 2026. Arrival Friday by 3pm, departure Sunday by 11am, so afternoon flights out of TPA or PIE work fine.
How many seats are there?
6 seats total.
What is the vow ceremony actually like?
Saturday at sunset, you stand before a mirror on Belleair Beach and read your vows aloud, witnessed by your sisters, with the ocean as your altar.
What's included?
Your stay experience, the release dinner, the ceremony, the reception, the honeymoon morning ritual, and me, fully present, all weekend.
What are the payment options?
Pay in full for $2,500, or reserve with a $500 deposit and choose the standard plan (balance by October 15) or the extended December plan (payments through December 15).
What is the refund policy?
Your seat is non refundable once reserved. Transfers to another person may be arranged with advance notice.
How do I claim a seat?
$500 deposit, payment plans through December. October 23 to 25, Belleair Beach. Reserve My Place.
Refund Policy
Your seat at Vows to Yourself is non refundable once reserved. If you are unable to attend, your seat may be transferred to another person with advance notice. Full balances remain due according to your selected payment plan regardless of attendance. By completing checkout, you agree that any automatic charges on the dates listed above will proceed as scheduled.